i took a page out of the book of [livejournal.com profile] batty_ and started an exercise DVD at home since I could always find 987435876342098 reasons to not go to the gym. it's an AM/PM yoga dvd i've had for years and forgot about, and i'm so glad i remembered it. i find myself much better adjusted having meditated before and after the 10 minute yoga, and i am also already seeing my cut from my 6-pack start to show back up.

see, for my health psychology class we had to change a bad health habit and document the whole thing. mine was to be more active because since the surgery i've not done much (cuz i couldn't) and put on 30 lbs. i lost 20 just eating better, so hopefully this new regimen will bring me back down to an even 120.

my mind is just so much clearer, and i love it.


so joey and i have always had nothing short of an amazing sex life (except that whole cancer scare...). recently however we've hit a new high that is amazing, best sex i've ever had in my entire life. and its weird how it all came about.

i'm not so good at being the aggressor in bed because i get too nervous for god knows what reason. so one day when he went to go see his son i cooked up a super-romantic candle lit dinner. afterwards we were sitting on the couch and for some reason i just leaned over and kissed him. this for some reason turned into a 2 hour long makeout session. when we finally caved and went to bed i still wouldn't let him make any sort of advance and we made out for a good half hour, like full on high school makeout session, lol. it was silly, but holy crap did it make the sex undeniably earth shattering. who knew? i just had to share for some reason. it's so nice.

this relationship just gets better and better with each passing day. it's awesome :D



From: [identity profile] greyyguy.livejournal.com


Isn't this one of those posts that really should have photos? :D

I'm glad everything is going so well for ya!

From: [identity profile] daliah.livejournal.com


hee, its called foreplay and intimacy, and women need it to get properly turned on. i dont know about you, but it takes my body a good handful of minutes to get properly lubed up once things get started. dont get me wrong, im sure anyone would agree that a good 'lets not waste any time, and just get down and dirty' session is great, but as women, we really do need to get into sex slower in order for it to feel the best. weve got a gradual dimmer switch, and men have the traditional on off button. sucks that we have to be so much different, but i think thats how you learn who you really love/really loves you when you realize that youre willing to adapt to what the other needs.

From: [identity profile] paroxysm-cycle.livejournal.com


life has never been better (except physically, i could do without the pain...) :)

From: [identity profile] paroxysm-cycle.livejournal.com


i haven't really had too much real intimacy since like high school. there's been spots here and there throughout my adult life, but this tops all of it. its so weird how something so simple can be so amazing. i really, truly, deeply love this man, and it feels so awesome to be able to express it correctly physically. he's an amazing person (not to mention he's fucking drop dead gorgeous) and its been so awesome to take our relationship so far since we were friends for about 17 years before we hooked up. when we first got together, he was so freaking beat down by life, by his girlfriend especially. he's gotten back to himself again and i just keep falling for him more and more with each passing day.

it's gotta be the most well adjusted and happy relationship i've ever had in my life :D.
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